Adult cats differ from small ones in their mature character and pronounced willfulness. Perhaps the kitten used to often sit on its arms and flipple, and when it grew up, it stopped jumping to its knees or even became aggressive.
Instructions
Step 1
Give warmth and affection to kittens from the first days of their life. Pick up more often, but do it in such a way that the baby feels safe. If the kitten is very small, keep it in a horizontal position and make sure that the legs do not hang from your palms. He must feel warmth and support, in other words, safety. Your task is to provide both from the first days.
Step 2
A slightly grown kitten may hiss at the owner or at guests. Let him know that you are not a danger to him. Let him get used to the smell of his hands, and for this, wait until he stops backing away and hissing, then pick him up. Sentence and be sure to stroke the kitten. This will help him calm down and get used to you a little. But do not expect that he will immediately "settle" in your lap. Cats and cats are very freedom-loving, so give them time to get used to you and get comfortable in your presence.
Step 3
Weasel can arise as a reciprocal feeling. Feed and care for the cat, educate, but do it without showing aggression. Do not under any circumstances beat the animal, do not brandish a newspaper or a book. The cat will either harbor a grudge and take revenge, or it will perceive the hand holding the newspaper over it as a toy and will bite and attack whenever you want to stroke it.
Step 4
The cat may have become unfriendly after you scared him. For example, you were hand-feeding him, and next to him something fell with a loud sound. After this, especially if the kitten is very small, he is unlikely to take a treat from his hands, fearing danger. After all, any sharp sound of a cat is regarded as a threat, from which they either hide, or defend themselves, or attack it. Do not make too loud and abrupt movements, otherwise the cat will perceive you as an enemy. Pet the cat if you've offended him, or give him a treat, a new toy. But whether you deserve this forgiveness or not, the cat will decide for itself.